Wednesday, 10 September 2014

ONE NIGHT STAND

Why is a man after the first sexual encounter is losing interest in one woman, and the other aims, although she ignores him openly? What are the reasons people choose a "sex for one night?" Sex without commitment - it is quite commonplace phenomenon today. Casual sex looking for both men and women. The reason is quite clear - all driven by the thirst of passion, and to account for a partner who is committed enough. casual sex often happens: - on the first date, when people "could not keep the passion" and / or realize that their relationships are not all the same , - when one of the pair is hoping that sex will help to keep a partner or get close to him even more. Why sometimes the relationship ends the next morning? 1. Do not like sex happens is: like a man attracts everyone - both cute and smart and well-mannered. But when it comes to sex, all of a sudden disappears. You suddenly realize that this partner - not yours. But to tell the person that it did not like in such a delicate matter, as it is inconvenient. It is much easier to say, "phoned" and retire without exchanging phone numbers. To some extent, this is the right thing - what drive the man in the complexes? Let he still considers himself irresistible, because it is likely that one day he will meet a partner who will be so considered . agree to end the relationship, almost without starting them, it is not the worst, and most importantly - it's more honest than bustling. 2. Men's failure If you have a nice evening, nice to talk and literally fell in love at first sight, come to a dessert called "sex", but with a partner, there are certain physiological problems - it's a disaster. matter of course in psychology - or rather, in pride. The man, who was unable to prove that he is a man (that is our logic in bed), will avoid the partner with whom he was a fiasco. Comforting words to the effect that "this happens to everyone, everything is fine, you can try again" does not help. A similar outcome is possible, if it was over too quickly. According to the "fault" of men. 3. Partner is not configured on the relationship casual sex prefer a man who is afraid of any liability to which require long-term relationship, or just does not plan to start a long-term relationship. Perhaps such a man will say that there is no time for something serious, you need to make a career, "get on their feet" ... But this banal excuses, because together to overcome life's difficulties and troubles much easier than alone. Though not wanting to have a long relationship at some period of life, in general, it is absolutely normal. Same applies to women - it can also just be other plans. Moreover, ctremlenie sex without commitment is also due to the influence of modern films and the behavior of show-business stars, which are the main target for a new generation of role models (still used in our country, such kind of sex was much smaller than it is now). 4. Partners - friends about sex between friends we have talked in detail in the article on this topic. Specifically, considered likely scenarios of future relations after intimacy. casual sex with a friend is usually either spontaneous or premeditated. It can even happen if there is a permanent partner of a friend (or both at once). The main reason for this kind of sex can be either sudden rush of passion after a good dose of alcohol, or the need to support a friend (a kind of sex-aid). 5. Sex tipsy Modern girls often say, "What went shameless guys!" Like, one sex on their mind. No romance, no respect for the opposite sex, etc., etc. Do not understand naive girls that in places where they are introduced to these guys, the romance "does not smell." Yes, gone are the days when people learn in libraries and public transport, but the bars, discos, nightclubs and other "hot spots" are unlikely to be a place where you can find a young man for a long-term relationship. Indeed, judge for yourself why people go to these places? To unwind, escape from everyday life and come off really. When the brain is turned off, a man driven by alcohol, people do stupid things. What a romance, even if on a sober assessment of what is happening out of the question? Sex after dating in places - this is just the logical conclusion of an enjoyable evening. Dessert, if you want. This, in general, need to understand both partners, but, alas, sometimes someone vain hopes for more. 6. Partner drinks a lot or talks just so happens that we do not like drinking. In relation to men is a kind of paradox. On the one hand - a very strange, because we are often trying to make a drunkard woman to make it more pliable. However, after this kind of sex continued relationship is unlikely to follow. On the other hand, everything is logical. It is unlikely that a man wants to have a life partner who drinks too much, and then tell all sorts of nonsense. Generally, a woman who talks a lot, quickly bored man. Not only because he was not interested in news about the TV series, show business, fashion, actions of her friends, and so on. N. general man says less than a woman, and so he does not stand up when it is about something chatters incessantly. If woman, combining these traits, attractive and sexy, it is well suited for single-sex. man is even ready to pour her a proper dose of alcohol and listen to the flow of information about the stars of show business and fashion. But only once. Women, in turn, is uninteresting, as played by the Moscow "Spartak" with Kiev "Dynamo" or with someone today boxing Nikolay Valuev. Imagine, it may not even worry that the Russian team was world champion in hockey! But if it looks like a man, then why not spend the night with him together? Again, only one. 7. Availability scares woman who catches herself on his neck, on a lot should not count. Plays its role here hunter instinct in men. fact representative of a strong half of humanity is losing interest in what goes easily, preferring to hunt down prey drive it into a corner, and then to enjoy his victory. However, this man's behavior says more about his complexes, than about the character. This is a man with obvious signs of narcissism. He is selfish, believes that he should get a woman, and does not expect a quick surrender. Disposable accept sex as yet another way to prove that he - a man, that is, can have as many women as he wants. Especially because they are hung around his neck. However, long-term relationship it will build only those women who won a very long time. Roughly similar arguments can be in the opposite situation. A woman is unlikely to want to have a long-term relationship with a man who changes women more often than shirt. Nobody likes to be the 101st partner and has even more so - to start a relationship with a man who "know" polrayona. A woman who has had a lot of men , interested only in his rich experience and, consequently, the ability to diversify pastime in bed. It's not in the complexes of the men, and in a healthy selfishness - it's better to be with a woman less pretty, but more serious. Women - the same logic, multiplied by the maternal instinct: what can be learned from a potential child out to play dad? 8. Could not agree on contraceptionMany men want to have sex without a condom. But with an unknown partner it can end the consequences of which would have to feel sorry for the rest of his life. What does the reluctance to protect themselves? About selfishness, irresponsibility? Both qualities do not add points to the partner. Even if you know exactly what you both do not have sexually transmitted diseases, the woman's consent to sex without contraception may mean her desire to get pregnant, that men are not always acceptable. In the opposite situation, a woman might think that a man quite no worries about it and simply throw a baby in her arms. So, waking up in the morning after a night of love "without protection", one of the partners can seriously think about whether it is worth it to change your habitual way of life and attitude to sex for the other. 9. Incompatibility This can be seen immediately, but can be realized in an instant. You need half an hour, and he was - 3 minutes. Or vice versa. He prefers a position that you can not stand and would not agree to use it. He will not accept anything else. It you want? reason most break can also be a behavior after sex. For example, a partner instantly breaks the bed and sits down to play at the computer. Or woman picks up the phone and call a friend, telling how she had just had a funny sex."Sorry, but we are too different to be together" - a standard phrase when parting for that reason. Maybe it's for the better, so as not to continue that which has no future. 10. Sexual selfishness Nobody will please a partner who does not notice anybody desires than its own. Sexually, it can be expressed very clearly, and can only sound overtones. Main thing: too demanding and too much hope no one needs a partner. Sex - this is the case, when playing one of the gates can not. And the man and the woman subconsciously want is not so much: affection, love and care. When one of them always says the word "want", another is quickly bored. One can not always just do that to meet the needs of another person. *** Can the time sex be the beginning of something bigger? Of course, yes, if a sudden passion would grow into love. If the partners realized that find what you were looking for a long time. In this case, sex (for example, in the day of our acquaintance) will be just a fun page in the family history. Otherwise, it's over as quickly as it began.

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